Yes you can change a man especially when he is aware that there are other aspects in his life that needs to be improved. It’s not about turning your boyfriend or partner, into someone he’s not—it’s about discovering and exploring his potential. Even though not all men are deeply in touch with themselves, those who value the way others see them know how important it is to work on themselves. Women have a certain effect on men that drives them to become better (“You make me want to be a better man” ring a bell?), especially in the early days of a relationship. However, this can only end in two ways: the man realizes he has become the best version of himself, or he finds himself pretending to be someone he’s not.Read: Can You Change a Man for the Better? (via thelovewhisperer)
You said you’d never leave me.R.R. (via missinyouiskillingme)
So tell me, where are you now?
Do not let them hold you against their body if you know they do not cherish every second they are in contact with your skin. I know it feels as if you are breaking your own spine, but tear yourself away from them. Know that the something beautiful you had was already fading. Know that in the end you did the only thing you could. Sometimes people grow apart. Even trees do it.Read: How To Stop Loving Someone Who Does Not Love You. (via thelovewhisperer)